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Transformative Coaching

Transformative Coaching

  As a Transformative Coach, I help people move past whatever is holding them back from having the type of relationship, career or business they really want.  What is Transformative Coaching? Change happens, when our thinking changes. Transformative Coaching facilitates a fresh way of looking at ourselves, our relationships, work, health and money. Fresh thought, […]

Do You Feel Invisible In Your Marriage?

Do You Feel Invisible In Your Marriage?

Does your spouse treat you with indifference or worse?  Do you feel invisible?  Have you been asking yourself whether you should stay or go?  Do you wonder if you have done enough to make the relationship better?  People with abusive partners, ask themselves these question more often than you might imagine.  These are some of […]

Obstacles In Your Mind Are Not As Real A...

Obstacles In Your Mind Are Not As Real As They Appear

  You know that message that is written on the side-view mirror of your car?  The one that says “objects in mirror appear closer than they are”.  The obstacles in your life, may sometimes appear larger and more real than they are, and they can often stand in the way of you getting what you want […]

One More Chance

One More Chance

Are you unhappy in your marriage?  Are you waiting for your spouse to change from being uncaring, inattentive, undemonstrative and angry into someone who is attentive, loving, affectionate and peaceful?  How long have you been waiting for that to happen?  When was the last time you truly felt loved and appreciated by your spouse?  When […]

What Love Is

What Love Is

The quote in the image above is from Captain Corelli’s Mandolin by Louis de Bernières.  When we enter into marriage or a long-term relationship, most of us intend to develop those deep roots that the author describes.  It is why this quote is often used in wedding ceremonies. When the flame of passion begins to […]

You Can Be Happy… No Matter What

You Can Be Happy… No Matter What

If you are waiting on someone else to start or stop doing something in order for you to feel better, happy, worthy, more peaceful or loved, you are putting yourself in the role of the victim and giving your power away. Many of the people I coach, come to me in a state of anxiety […]

How To Find Lasting Love

How To Find Lasting Love

30 years ago, I believed that finding a romantic partner was hard work. I thought I had to change how I looked, how I behaved and what I liked or disliked in order to attract a mate and have a successful romantic relationship. I didn’t think I was enough, so I became a master at […]

Who is Your Bengal Tiger?

Who is Your Bengal Tiger?

Over the weekend, my husband and I saw the movie, Life of Pi. A fantasy adventure of a young boy named Pi, from Pondicherry, India who survives a shipwreck. He spends 227 days on a small lifeboat with a Bengal tiger named Richard Parker. To stay alive, not only must Pi outsmart and outmaneuver the […]

New Year – New Relationship?

New Year – New Relationship?

Before you jump to conclusions about the title of this article, consider that a new relationship doesn’t necessarily mean that you will leave your existing relationship behind. You could develop a new relationship with your current partner or you could create a new relationship with yourself. On the other hand, if you are single, you […]

Be Perfectly Imperfect

Be Perfectly Imperfect

Between Halloween and New Years Day we are bombarded daily by images of holiday settings that include perfectly dressed, smiling people gathered around an elegantly decorated Christmas tree happily sharing a meal, exchanging gifts or singing Christmas carols.  Although I am not as familiar with all the various holiday traditions observed around the world as I am […]