DIVORCE

Are You Ignoring An Open Window?

by Linda Thurwanger

Trying harder is not always the answer. Have you ever watched a flying insect, trapped inside your car, as it tried to escape through the windshield or the rear window?   Maybe you  rolled the side windows down, so all the bug had to do was move over a few inches and easily fly to freedom through the open window.  Instead, its wings […]

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One More Chance

by Linda Thurwanger

Are you unhappy in your marriage?  Are you waiting for your spouse to change from being uncaring, inattentive, undemonstrative and angry into someone who is attentive, loving, affectionate and peaceful?  How long have you been waiting for that to happen?  When was the last time you truly felt loved and appreciated by your spouse?  When […]

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To Divorce Or Not To Divorce… Either Way, It Takes Courage.

by Linda Thurwanger

Between our own inner thoughts and the mixed messages we receive from our family, religious organizations and society, it is not surprising that we can feel confused about what to do when it comes to whether or not we should stay or leave a marriage. In my experience as a Divorce Coach, it seems the […]

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6 Reasons We Don’t Ask for Help

by Linda Thurwanger

We are not meant to go through hardships alone.  It troubles me that so many of us are reluctant to let others know when we are going through one of life’s challenges.  We feel good about ourselves when we help others, but when it comes to asking for emotional support for ourselves, we shy away. […]

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Boxes of Memories

by Linda Thurwanger

A few days ago, I received a letter from a law office informing me that I owed $3,000 to a Property Owner’s Association for assessment fees on a small tract of land in North Georgia.  I have not owned that property since the early 1980’s.  For some reason, the warranty deed on file was never changed […]

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Until Death Do Us Part

by Linda Thurwanger

When I married my first husband, I promised to love, honor and respect him.  I promised to stay with him until we were parted by death.  Unfortunately, I did not do my due diligence and really get to know the man I was making all these promises to.  Nor, did I truly know myself. It […]

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Is My Marriage Over?

by Linda Thurwanger

How do we know if we should stay or leave a marriage?  Based on my personal experience and the feedback I have received from people I have spoken with or coached over the years, this question can be extremely perplexing.   Even when there is physical or emotional abuse and even if infidelity or an addiction […]

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Why Pay for Coaching?

by Linda Thurwanger

  At one time or another, everyone experiences a bump or a pothole in the road of life.   I believe it would be safe to say that in the course of a life time, most of us experience many such challenges.  No one gets through life without facing obstacles of some sort. The majority of time, we are […]

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