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Do You Feel Invisible In Your Marriage?

by Linda Thurwanger

  Does your spouse treat you with indifference or worse?  Do you feel invisible?  Have you been asking yourself whether you should stay or go?  Do you wonder if you have done enough to make the relationship better?  People with abusive partners, ask themselves these question more often than you might imagine.  These are some […]

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Are You Really?

by Linda Thurwanger

Do you think of yourself as a kind and loving person?  Are you, really? If we squeeze an orange, the only thing that comes out of the orange, is orange juice.  There is no chance that we will get grape juice or anything else from the orange.  When someone “squeezes” you, what comes out?   When […]

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Stop Pushing My Buttons!

by Linda Thurwanger

If you are like most of us, there are people and situations in your life that get under your skin.  What do you do when others push your emotional buttons? Do you let your anger take over and lose control of your words and actions? Do you stuff your feelings by acting as if everything […]

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You Can Be Happy… No Matter What

by Linda Thurwanger

If you are waiting on someone else to start or stop doing something in order for you to feel better, happy, worthy, more peaceful or loved, you are putting yourself in the role of the victim and giving your power away. Many of the people I coach, come to me in a state of anxiety […]

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Someone’s Attitude Got you Down? 5 Ways to Find Serenity Now.

by Linda Thurwanger

    Do you typically sail along through your days, feeling content and able to take life’s challenges in stride, but all it takes is a mopey or disgruntled attitude from your life partner and you find yourself in a downward spiral?  Does this happen to you when your boss or your parent or child is in a less […]

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Caring vs Care-taking

by Linda Thurwanger

Are you a caring person or a care-taker? Is there a difference?   Yes!  There is a big difference!  When we care about another person, we experience feelings of empathy and love toward that person.  It’s effortless and natural.  Care-taking on the other hand is something we do to avoid conflict with another person or to […]

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